five favs..

Since Facebook has added all these new applications, i've done quite well to keep my account simple &navigable. However, there is this one that i lust for from afar. 5 FAVS. So to lighten the heavy, follow-your-dream-spew that i normally deliver here's my 5 fav. features in the opposite sex.

Ive found, that if he can identify himself with these [what i assume to be simple] qualities- physical appearance HONESTLY does not matter to me. In a 5-part definition, this [see below] is my ideal man:

• Creative- To possess a sense of expression outside that which is asked, expected or common amongst peers (in a way) shows leadership. Its an eloquent, alpha quality that little regards negative feedback. and in turn, renders positivity and passion. Besides, I live to learn something new. Ideally, its what keeps a relationship fresh.
• Wisdom, with a fear of God- Many argue that wisdom comes with age and/or experience and i rebuttal against neither. But I also add that wisdom is learning while aging and while experiencing- not just going through the motions, as many of us do. I absolutely appreciate knowledge but I'd much prefer a man wise enough to know better than a man who is just smart enough to know. &a man wise enough to know better MUST know God! Spirituality &wisdom coincide; i believe.
• Witty- This a is blatant deal-breaker for me. With the first 2, seems i can wade around a while before discovering whether those sides exists or not, but this is an off-the-bat WHAM! either you it or you aint! Being that I'm so sarcastic and enlightened and well-read [not bragging], if he is anything but- there would undeniably be a language barrier. &NO_THING is more frustrating than having to say, "never mind."
• Awareness of self and others- He should be aware of his appearance- caring how he looks &what he wears. Theres no arrogance in studying finer things and having them. Aware of his hygiene- staying healthy and clean [inside &out]. Aware of his emotions- knowing how/what exactly he's feeling etc.. In, turn he should be aware of me- and those things previously mentioned [my appearance, health &hygiene, emotions etc.]. Awareness clears the line of communication and says nothing more than, "I care." Simple, yet so satisfying when executed properly.
• Sensual- I am an over-the-top romantic. Ironically, I'm not into the mushy-gushy cakes and candy-type courting. I dont thrill easily over fancy dates and expensive things. not really. But I melt inside over deep conversations and welcoming sunsets...the sense of touch and the essence of a long stare...the intertwining of fingers...the fog of breath. yea. all that excites my loins. With me, Slow is always best.

See, I'm not being physically or financially bias. I feel like if he encompasses those five qualities the physical &financial part just fall into place effortlessly. &there is no_thing on my list of five that any one man cannot do/be if he chooses. Every quality I mentioned is purposely ambiguous to structure something concrete that is important to me in a relationship. Substance unseen is still substance. But something seen may or may not have any substance at all. &I think thats where we're backwards in finding "Mr./Mrs. Right." We often focus mainly on looks &accolades only to find theres nothing to actually appreciate. Appreciate ambiguity-